For Book Review: Dr. Ava Cadell's NeuroLoveology
Book Description
About the Author
There is evidence that having sex makes you smarter!
I’ve been doing a lot of research on sex and the brain for my new book, NeuroLoveology: The Power to Mindful Love and Sex and I discovered ways for us to grow our brain cells while growing a romantic relationship and even growing our business.
If you are single, you can get someone hooked on you using the secrets of NeuroLoveology. Most people would guess that sight is the most important sense when it comes to attraction, and they are right as far as igniting that initial spark. But you maybe surprised, to learn that the sense of smell is 10,000 times stronger than taste and the most important sense when it comes to creating long-term romance.
To get a new person hooked on you, you need to trigger desire that will release addictive forming chemicals such as dopamine and noradrenaline. That means seducing them with an aroma that turns them on. So, your opening line when flirting should be “What’s your favorite fragrance, flower or food.” Then tell him or her that is also your favorite and make sure to use it on your first date.
If you want to be a better communicator in the bedroom or in the boardroom, NeuroLoveology offers many insights to keep partners happy mentally, physically and sexually. We all have left and right brain hemispheres and while both sides are utilized in nearly every activity, the left side of the brain manages the tools of language and works in a logical and sequential order while the right side is more visual, holistic and creative. Understanding your own, as well as your partner’s, preferred brain hemisphere sets the foundation for greater communication and more compatibility. So you can give instructions verbally to a left-brained partner and visually to a right-brain partner for a meeting of the minds.
If you are already in a relationship but want to add some excitement, then NeuroLoveology is key to more passion. First, you’ve got to create an environment that is stress free. Women especially need a clean environment. Wired to be caretakers, they can feel the stress of not having tidy surroundings. Once you have created a calming environment, the release of dopamine motivates our pleasure and reward center in our brain. Oxytocin is an important feel-good hormone that lowers stress and is also known as the love hormone, which can be easily triggered with a six-second hug. Now that you are both relaxed, you can focus on passion and pleasure.
If you want to have mind-blowing sex, then you’ll benefit from my chapter on Sensory Connection and BrainGasm. Becoming aware of your erogenous zones is a great way to enhance your sexual relationship. These “pleasure points” produce erotic feelings when stimulated. One often-overlooked area that can boost arousal and even magnify orgasmic intensity is the outer edge of the ear, known as the C-spot. This is a wonderful place to start in exploring your partner’s erogenous zones as it has the ear’s biggest bundle of nerves. As for a BrainGasm, there are millions of nerve endings in the brain devoted to the lips; so passionate kissing is an essential component to achieving a BrainGasm. Once the juices are flowing, focus on your partner with your full attention by looking deep into their eyes to release Oxytocin, the bonding chemical that establishes a greater sense of intimacy and increases desire. Put your prominent hand on each others heart to light the emotional fire centers for a heart-mind-body connection. The Amygdala induces sexual energy from the brain as low Serotonin levels make you feel intense emotions as if two hearts beat as one. Take your partner’s breath away by using your breath around their most sensitive erogenous zones from the top of their neck to the tip of their toes. When you blow your cool breath on the left side of your partner’s body, you are stimulating the right side of their brain. Watch your partner’s muscles contract with pleasure, controlled by the Cerebellum. Remember that sex starts between the ears as your brain influences the kind of sex you want to have, from romantic, playful, intimate, erotic or wild. Then it releases a powerful cocktail of brain chemicals as the sensations of pleasure travels between your legs.
For over 100 Neuro-cises, check out my new book at Amazon at http://www.amazon.com/NeuroLoveology-The-Power-Mindful-Love/dp/1624672256/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1389809416&sr=8-1&keywords=neuroloveology
Jim Strzalkowski
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